Writing Prompt: Anger

this_is_my_angry_face_2_by_reitanna_seishin-d4ief9uWhat is it that drives us to anger? Is it the conflict between what we expect and what we don’t get? Is it the clash between our beliefs and those of others? Or is it just something unexplainable that gets under our skins to the point of wanting to scream or claim straight lunacy? Whatever the cause may be, person, situation, thing, or something still unknown, being able to control the anger emotion is key. It can be the difference between being at peace within when all hell is breaking loose around you and being tried for a crime.

 I have found that there are moments lately where some of the situations in my life have made me very mad or angry. Mostly because the events that have occurred failed my expectation or overstepped boundaries that had been set. I’m the type of person that will chalk the first incident up to a “didn’t know”. After that, my inner thermometer starts to rise.

It’s frustrating to feel, or rather think, that there is no control over a situation. But what helps is looking at it in a different way. It’s like framing what may be an ugly or unflattering picture in a new frame. Instead of letting the situation get the best of us, sometimes it’s best to find positive outlets or distance ourselves (when possible) from the conflict.

 How do you deal with anger???

 XOXO, Melanie Dawnn

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Fly on the Wall

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“Think of your favorite book and insert yourself into the plot line as one of the central characters.  Write a short piece with you integrated into the story!” (Tiana Lopez, Zealous Scripts)

I think the above writing prompt is just excellent. It’s one thing to read and imagine yourself inserted into a story…it’s another to be a part of it. So, I’ve dug deep into the cockles of my brain to figure out which book to use for this writing prompt. Honestly, not a one came to mind. Either that means that the authors were so good that no other characters were necessary, or I’m just not in my imaginative, creative mode.

flyonwallWell…maybe I am. If I had to insert myself in a story, I would be a fly on the wall. The one that can buzz around, sometimes unnoticed, to see and hear what really went on. In Maya Angelou’s Gather Together in My Name, there were scenes that I could only paint in my mind based on how she described it. For instances, her interactions with Tolbrook – how he “sweet talked” her in the restaurant, how he convinced her to live in a whore house, and when Maya found out where he lived…with a wife. It was obvious to me that this was an older man who took advantage of a young mother who wanted a man to love her fully. Instead, she found a snake in the grass.

Being a fly on the wall, I could have seen and heard the others that may have warned her about this man. I’m sure he was known. Or maybe I could have been the fly that continually buzzed around as a distraction from his BS. Either way, it would have been nice to know about the other perspectives that may have been trying to help Maya from making a mistake with him.

 XOXO, Melanie Dawnn

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Is Age Just a Number? What’s the Best One?

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“Write about one thing that is special about being your current age and why.” ?” (Tiana Lopez, Zealous Scripts)

As a young’in I used to think that anything past the age of 25 was just old. Once I reached 25, old seemed like 50 and beyond. Now that I’m 40, I’m not so sure what old is anymore.

Watching people like Betty White and others in their 90s and centennial years shows that being youthful is not just an appearance, but a state of mind as well.   In recent weeks, I’ve seen a 98 year old woman break the record for the 100 meter dash. Mind you, it was for her age group, but still. Then there was something on tv where two 80-somethings discussed the fads and entertainers of the present. They knew a lot more than I did.

So to stay on track with the writing prompt, here’s my take. I’m proud to be 40. Getting to this point has allowed me to grow with wisdom as well as knowledge. I feel like this is a special age to be because of the stability that has come with the passing years since high school. My twenties were more of trying to figure out what it means to be an adult without having prior experience. Thirties were walking in what I found out and making corrections along the way, but my entry to 40 has shown that the work and wisdom acquired have paid off. I am more self-confident, a better communicator, make better use of resources, and more established personally and professionally. With the lessons learned and goals for the future, I see myself being around for quite awhile – and I’ll enjoy every minute of it. J

XOXO, Melanie Dawnn

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Favorite Places, Creative Spaces

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Not long ago I mentioned that I was having a bit of writer’s block. After a moment of reflection, I realized that there’s just a lot going on in my life right now professionally and personally.  Time and creative energy to write have been on low supply….until now.

I ran across a blog that offered some direction to at least keep me writing. Tiana Lopez’s blog, Zealous Scripts, has a section dedicated to writing prompts. I thought I’d take a stab at a few of them – at least get a paragraph or two out. So, for the next few weeks, I’ll post some of my content based on these. Happy reading!  Continue reading

Writing from a Photo Prompt

melaniedawnn:

I’m finding that photos and images can provide a Good opening for creativity. When dealing with writer’s block it can be the spark to at least brainstorm a thought or feeling. And as the blogger mentioned, it could lead to questions which can help in writing about the answer.

Originally posted on Penguin Ponderings:

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I took this photo the last time I went to Africa. I played around with it a bit and changed it to black and white. I was hoping it would inspire me to come up with a little story about it, perhaps a witty caption. I’m still searching for a story for this photo to tell.

I’ve often read in writing magazines and online that a good way to start writing again, to beat blocks or boredom, is to use a photo prompt. Granted, most of the prompts you see are a little more advanced than this one. What I mean is, they have much more going on.

I like the idea of taking a photo and trying to come up with a story behind it. It doesn’t have to be elaborate or mind-blowing. But I like that it gets the creative and imaginative juices swirling. Well, it should. Currently…

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Writing When You’re Tired, Bored, or in a Bad Mood

melaniedawnn:

Wow! Excellent questions and ideas to help with writer’s block or angst. This will be very helpful.

Originally posted on The Book of J. M. Lord:

If you’re like most writers, you’ve probably had days when you just can’t get in the mood to write. Perhaps it’s a case of severe writer’s block where you’re staring at a blank screen thanks to a lack of drive or motivation. Maybe you’re tired after a long day at work. Or you’re just disillusioned and in a cranky mood thanks to life’s frustrations dragging you down and making you miserable. I find that times like these can actually prove to be a fertile source of new writing ideas and inspiration if you channel your thoughts properly.

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Defeating Writer’s Block 3: Do Not Edit

melaniedawnn:

Wonderful insight for the perfectionist in us.

Originally posted on The Art of Writing:

I’m on this topic as I face a writer’s temptation, and to succumb to these snares sends one to the purgatory of a special kind of writer’s block. I write at a speed of approximately one chapter a night. Sometimes it’s more, often it’s less, but at a point I run into a wall and can’t move forward. At this point I take pleasure in the finer things in life, since I’ve already cleaned the house as an excuse not to write.

When I get closer to finishing, I do not appreciate this open space. I want to write all the time, dedicating every waking minute not at work to my literary pursuits, so there is now the temptation to edit. I want to print it out and start editing and fixing plot holes once I hit that wall of productive writing.

Often times, people don’t get this far without editing…

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